Consent

Let’s Talk About Consent (Without Making It Awkward) 

Consent. It’s one of those words that gets mentioned a lot — in workshops, posters, and group chats — but sometimes people still aren’t quite sure what it really means in day-to-day life. The good news? Consent isn’t complicated or awkward; it’s just about communication, respect, and making sure everyone’s on the same page. 

At its core, consent means everyone involved is giving a clear, willing, and enthusiastic “yes.” It’s not about someone not saying no — it’s about both (or all) people actively wanting to participate. And it’s not just about romantic or sexual situations, either. Consent applies to all sorts of things: sharing photos, giving hugs, borrowing clothes, or even reading someone’s private messages. Basically, it’s about checking in before crossing someone’s personal boundary. 

One of the biggest myths about consent is that it “kills the mood.” In reality, it’s the opposite — it sets the stage for comfort, trust, and genuine connection. Nothing is more attractive than knowing everyone’s happy and relaxed about what’shappening. A quick “Is this okay?” or “Do you want to keep going?” can be simple, caring, and even a little flirty. 

Here are a few things to keep in mind: 

• Consent is active, not assumed. Silence or hesitation isn’t a yes. A yes should be clear, confident, and unpressured. 

• People can change their mind. Saying yes once doesn’t mean yes forever. Everyone has the right to pause, stop, or take a break at any time. 

• It goes both ways. Checking in with each other keeps everyone comfortable — it’s a shared responsibility. 

• Small gestures matter. Reading body language, tone, and comfort levels can tell you a lot — and asking never hurts. 

When we treat consent as an everyday part of healthy interaction, it becomes second nature. It’s not about following strict rules — it’s about respect, communication, and empathy. Whether you’re dating, making new friends, or just navigating uni life, leading with that mindset makes things better for everyone. 

So next time you’re wondering if you should ask — the answer is yes. Because when everyone’s enthusiastic and on board, it’s not just okay; it’s awesome.